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shivam dhawan

 

Born on 17th Feb 1985, my parents named me Shivam as the day was as auspicious as the birth itself, it was "Shivratri".  The darkest  night of the year and I was born with blessings from god. Aquarian by sunsign, openness of mind is one of the traits

Statutory Warning- Do Not Forget  To Wish ME.  It may be dangerous,  I'll  not  be responsible for any repercussions.

To have a glimpse of my notions, also read my articles.

I grew up as a kid who never cared about things but still complained that things do not go the way he wanted. Well looking back at times, life  has been full of ups and downs, as it always is,  but  it doesn't seem to matter  and extrapolating the concept further, I realize,  what  I am going through will  also fade up just as a  memory. So I enjoy everything I do in life and wish to live every moment to the fullest.

Well to be honest, I was a decent kid whom u may call dim-witted and careless. My mind always wandered  in  useless innovations  and  destructively-creative ideas. I wanted to be a scientist when I grow up, wildly interested in science and did some crazy inventions too. I  used  to  take  my science  stuff  to  school  and  boast  it to friends. It was not so bad as I got some recognitions through science exhibitions also.  Hey, I  backed  a Silver Medal  in  National level Science Olympiad (97.14%). That was great. In tenth I asked my parents how to become a scientist, so they guided me to take science,  and  that  was  obvious  too. Shifted my school from B.B.P.S to B.V.B. Got science with economics.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

In my new school I found out some other ways to enjoy, these were bunking classes, bunking school, failing in exams, teasing teachers, and all such stuff. Bunking school just to eat " Rs three ka paratha" in chilling winter mornings. Learnt how it feels to fail in exams, to tell a fact, in my 11th and 12th, I never passed a single exam of chemistry, be it a 10 marks test, 20 marks test, sessionals, half yearly or pre-boards. Still I scored 80 in my boards (in a tough paper) and believe me, the girl (Apeksha) whom I taught chemistry, topped the school in chemistry(92). Well don't take me wrong, I never failed in any exam else than chemistry. And till date, the two biggest fears in my life are 'Failing' and 'Dying'.

After my 12th I sat for I.I.T entrance and just missed, and confident of making it, I dropped an year for preparation. But destiny had some other plans for me, at fresh attempt I cleared B.V.P entrance and came for counseling, I was being offered Production course. After an year of preparation I landed up in B.V.P and pursued Production Engineering, (",) If u get the story.

Well at this point of time I paused a bit at had a deep thought about my life. I started to comprehend my life. College life has been real fun and with so good mates, it is blissful. I have always been lucky in choice of friends, am fond of meeting and knowing people. I know I Have the bestest of the pals and pray to god that they are always with me whenever I need them.

In my view, everything in life falls into its place at a point of time, at least in my case it happened so. It may take a while, or even a span of few years but at the end it happened, and happened for good. (touchwood).

I also wonder on many mysteries that keep on happening in life, strange things happen which appear as very organized series of events. These can logically be defined as coincidences, but strangely strategic. Can't explain them, can't tell them, can't believe them, yet they happen. Named after God himself born on such an auspicious day yet I never believed in god myself but at this point in life I do wonder what power is driving my life. Things just happen by themselves and it all occurs as a very fast paced contraption. I do sit back sometimes just to breathe and absorb all the coming and goings. Every thing that you ever wish for in life comes to you one way or the other, or you  get some thing better. basic line being," at the end you will never regret ". all you have to do is keep faith.


 

I...

I... [Inspired from a few blogs I visited...]

I am thinking about:
What it would be like to travel the world, visit beautiful places, meet talented people.

I want to:
Learn clay modeling, sculpting and the works one day.

I wish:
To make my daughter proud of me when she grows up in life.

I hear:
Questions.

I wonder:
Whether I will ever have all the answers.

I regret:
Not having taken up writing seriously as a student.

I dance:
When I can't see myself dancing.

I sing:
"Apni marzi se kahaan apne safar ke hum hain... rukh hawaaon ka jidhar ka hai, udhar ke hum hain."

I cry:
Because I am human.

I make with my hands:
Impossible dreams.

I write:
So I don't lose myself.

I confuse:
Happiness with perfection.

I need:
A second chance to learn all the arts I didn't.

I am:
But another instrument in God's big scheme of things


 

The Fundas

=>   Share your smile with people, smile even to strangers.

=>   Have a firm handshake.

=>   Look people in the eye.

=>   Sing in the shower. 

=>   Own a great cell

=>   If in a fight, hit first and hit hard.

=>   Keep secrets.

=>   Never give up on anything. Miracles happen everyday. 

=>   Always accept an outstretched hand.

=>   Be brave. Even if you're not, pretend to be. No one can tell the difference.

=>   Whistle.

=>   Avoid sarcastic remarks.  

=>   Choose your life's mate carefully. From this one decision will come 90 per cent of all your happiness or misery

=>   Make it a habit to do nice things for people who will never find out. 

=>   Lend only those books you never care to see again. 

=>   Never deprive someone of hope; it might be all that they have. 

=>   When playing games with children, let them win. 

=>   Give people a second chance, but not a third. 

=>   Become the most positive and enthusiastic person you know. 

=>   Loosen up. Relax. Except for rare life-and-death matters, nothing is as important as it first seems. 

=>   Don't allow the phone to interrupt important moments. It's there for your convenience, not the caller's. 

=>   Be a good loser.

=>   Be a good winner.

=>   Think twice before burdening a friend with a secret. 

=>   When someone hugs you, let them be the first to let go. 

=>   Be modest. A lot was accomplished before you were born. 

=>   Beware of the person who has nothing to lose.

=>   Live your life so that your epitaph could read, No Regrets 

=>   Don't burn bridges. You'll be surprised how many times you have to cross the same river. 

=>   Be bold and courageous. When u look back on life, u'll regret the things you didn't do more than the one's u did. 

=>   Never waste an opportunity to tell someone you love them. 

=>   Remember no one makes it alone. Have a grateful heart and be quick to acknowledge those who helped you. 

=>   Take charge of your attitude. Don't let someone else choose it for you.

=>   Begin each day with some of your favorite music. 

=>   Once in a while, take the scenic route. 

=>   Answer the phone with enthusiasm and energy in your voice. 

=>   Keep a note pad and pencil on your bed-side table. Million-dollar ideas sometimes strike at 3 a.m. 

=>   Show respect for everyone who works for a living, regardless of how trivial their job.

=>   Send your loved ones flowers. Think of a reason later. 

=>   Make someone's day by paying the toll for the person in the car behind you. 

=>   Become someone's hero.

=>   Marry only for love. 

=>   Count your blessings. 

=>   Compliment the meal when you're a guest in someone's home. 

=>   Wave at the children on a school bus.

=>   Remember that 80 per cent of the success in any job is based on your ability to deal with people. 

=>   Don't expect life to be fair.

=>   Life is always how you see it

 

 

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